When is the best time to drop night feedings, and how can you do it?

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“When do you think she’ll sleep through the night?” or “Do you think he still needs all his night feeds?” Questions along this theme are absolutely some of the most common ones I receive. Sleep deprived parents hoping to drop to just one waking, or no wakings at all. If you have a little one who is waking through the night, it’s common to wonder when is the right time to drop night wakings and more importantly, how to do it.

The answer to this set of questions is not black and white. Every baby is different and will drop off their night feeds at different times. It’s important to take into consideration how much your baby is eating during the day, how old they are, what is their temperament, if they have any health issues and how active they are.

If you are wondering if now is the right time to drop night feeds, you can check the following criteria and if you think your baby is in the window, check in with your pediatrician for the go ahead.

  • Is your baby over four months old?
  • Is your baby a healthy weight for their age? Are they gaining weight steadily?
  • Has your pediatrician given you the okay?
  • Is your baby taking enough milk during the daytime hours?


If you’ve answered yes to the questions above then you can begin to wean from night feeds, chasing that full night’s sleep.

Why do we wait to drop feeds?

When you first bring your little one home, it can seem like they are feeding non-stop. This is because your baby’s stomach is simply too small to be able to take in enough milk to sustain long periods between feedings. Often your baby will continue to eat in 2-3 hour stretches for the first several months.

Over time, as your little one grows, their stomach is able to take in enough milk to sustain longer stretches of nighttime sleep. During this time, we generally want to continue to feed frequently during the daylight hours. This not only helps baby get better daytime sleep, but begins to set the pattern that daytime is for play and eating, and nighttime is for sleeping. So rather than stretch day feeds, we focus on stretching night feeds (at this age, your sweet one is still too young to stretch both).

If you’re not sure if your baby is ready to drop those night feeds, you can always ask your pediatrician at one of your regular well-baby appointments. Book a 15 minute discovery call now if you’d like to see how I can help. For some babies who are efficient feeders, this can be as early as four or five months, and for others who are more active or distracted feeders, this can be several months after.

Wondering how to tell if your baby is getting enough milk?

This is always a tricky one! Particularly for breastfeeding mamas. You can use a milk calculator (like this one here) to determine the approximate amount of milk your baby should be taking. Keep in mind though, I’ve seen huge variances in the amount of milk that babies actually take by age and weight. These calculators provide a generalizations only. If you’re worried about how much milk your baby is taking, you can always check that with your pediatrician as well.

For breastfed babies, you can get a good indication as to whether your baby is taking a full feeding by the fullness of your breasts. It can also be useful to do weighted feeds (weighing baby before and after – often done in a clinic or with an IBCLC), or a pumping session to get a better understanding of how much milk you are producing.


So how then, do you drop night feeds?

Below are my top strategies for dropping night feedings. 

  1. Don’t rush in. Babies experience more active sleep cycles than we do as adults, so often parents can assume that their baby is awake when really it just looks like he’s awake. Wait 10-15 minutes to see if your baby will resettle on their own.
  2. Ensure your baby is getting adequate feedings during the day. If your baby is truly hungry, they will continue to wake through the night no matter what you do. Helping to ensure that your baby is getting enough full feedings during the day will help them to sleep longer stretches in the night time.
  3. Feed less over time. Feeding your baby for less time (or less ounces if bottle fed) will help to reduce the amount they are taking in the night. Feeding less each night is a gentle way of reducing the need for each feeding. This is a great method when it comes to determining if your baby still needs that feeding, or if they are just waking out of habit.
  4. Drop one at a time. Remember that just because developmentally your baby may be ready to drop their night feedings, doesn’t mean they are prepared for it. Work towards one feeding at a time and be patient. Change takes time.
  5. Finally, you can use your sleep training technique to train through wakings. If your child continues to wake a specific time, with or without the training, it’s possible they still need to eat at that time.

If your sleeping situation is working for you and your baby, there’s never a need to make changes. Provided everyone is healthy, happy and sleeping safely, you never need to drop a night feeding. If you know me, you’ll have heard me say that I kept feeding my son for his dawn feeding for as long as possible – the cool, cozy feeding was my favorite time of the day. If you and your little one are ready to drop a waking or two but need a hand, book a FREE discovery call  and let’s chat about how I can help. 

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